Despite it all, I will choose to be quiet..

Every relationship passes through different trials. These trials will tell if the relationship is strong or not. How? On the way you will deal with these trials. In any trial, the best way to deal with it is to just keep quiet and be patient. If your partner is already on the boiling point, just keep your mouth shut and stay calm. Don't let yourself ride with the situation. You will get your chance to talk out your side, and when you do, make sure to talk it out in the right manner. Sometimes, its not what you say that counts, it's how you say it.

One root of a fight is jealousy, which is true. Sometimes, it can't be stop from happening. It is sweet to have your partner jealous once in a while. If this happens, it is better to take it as a sign that your partner loves you. On the other hand, make sure you don't do anything unfaithful. In this kind of situation, the best way to deal with it is again, to just keep quiet, which is very hard to do because usually, when you feel jealous, the temp. will rocket up. After you manage to stay calm, which you have to if you want don't want a fight, it is time for you to say you were jealous, and again, in the right manner. Even if you will not directly say that you felt jealous, your partner will surely know that you were, because usually, it will be obvious.

Whatever trial your relationship will go through, don't let your uncontrolled emotions prevail if you don't want to end up fighting for the whole week. Don't let your relationship to be washed away by a simple, little thing that became a big issue. If you are having a fight and pushed to the limit, sit down and ask yourself, "is the reason of all this worth our relationship?".



"What would have happened if I did not kept silent?"